When holiday season rolls around, we all want to be able to sit around the dinner table and experience something reminiscent of a Norman Rockwell painting. Unfortunately, the holidays tend to bring out the worst in some families. Dr. Travis...
MoreResources to Reduce Stress in Parents
One of the biggest challenges that parents of children on the autism spectrum must cope with is their own stress. How you manage your stress can be a huge factor in both the quality of your own life and in the life of your child.
MoreFinding Your Self-Esteem From Within
I grew up as a child actor and model, from ages two to eighteen. I never did anything fame-worthy, but I did pose for Vogue Bambini and Rolling Stone Magazine, with Fleetwood Mac. I also got to repeatedly stuff my face with cookies in...
MoreFiring the Butler and the Maid . . .
. . . A strategy for helping your child with special needs learn to problem solve.Moms and Dads of children with special needs tend to take on the role of butler and maid far too long for the well-being of their son or daughter. As a consultant I...
MoreHow to Find a Special Needs Day Care
According to the Children’s Defense Fund, 19 million children in kindergarten through eighth grade are regularly in nonparental care before and after school.
MoreLittle Miss Adorable, Occupational Therapy, Speech, Language and MORE Swear Words
A while ago I posted about my daughter, Little Miss Adorable’s newest words and our struggles in Speech and Language Therapy.
MoreAuthor Rebecca Woods an Inspiration to All Moms
It seems like so rarely do we see autism in fiction, and when it’s done as well as Living Through Charlie, one has to wonder at how much truth really lies behind the story. While it might have started out more like a memoir, author Rebecca...
MoreFifty Shades of Embarrassment
Compromise. Commitment. Patience. My 20 years of marriage have taught me many things. One of the most important was how to read. Sure, I knew how to read before I got married. For example, I was a voracious reader of the tabloids in the lines at...
MoreThe Journey of the Parent with a Special Needs Child
I think it’s time we acknowledge the internal emotional experience of a parent of a child with special needs. This is a journey, and there are times when you will feel traumatized or in disbelief with your experience, and times when you...
MoreMindfulness Awareness-Avoidance
The other day there was a knock at my door.
MoreShow Me the Money and Failure to Thrive
Obama’s healthcare debate filled the radio airwaves the weeks before daughter was born. I would drive to doctor’s appointments, hoping that Mr. Obama’s reforms would go through and amazed at history in the making. I could not fathom...
MoreThrowing Parents a Life Preserver
In San Jose California in March 2012, a mother of a child with autism shot her son and then herself I wrote this piece that evening WHERE Were We? (A professional’s introspection on that awful day)
MoreHow To Tell Your Child You Have MS
Full disclosure: I don’t have kids. But this is such an important topic that I decided to read up on it and summarize the highlights. And, I consulted with a good friend in South Carolina, Dr. Dale Dingledine, a psychotherapist...
MoreAren’t We All Special? Don’t We All Have Needs?
As an adult looking back I realize I have always had special needs people in my life. More so I have often felt special needs myself from time to time. This is now what my life revolves around. Special needs is in my life...
MoreTen Asperger’s Traits of Women
1) We are deep philosophical thinkers and writers; gifted in the sense of our level of thinking. Perhaps poets, professors, authors, or avid readers of nonfictional genre. I don’t believe you can have Aspergers without being...
MoreOn Being a Military Wife and Mother
My name is Xiomara Montes, I am 35 years old, born on the island of Puerto Rico. I have 5 years of marriage, and my husband served in the U.S. Armed Forces. We have 3 beautiful children, two girls and one boy. Our first daughter is 10 years, a...
MoreRADs and Cutting
January 21, 2011. It was a day that started off like any other day, except about noonish I found out that my daughter had skipped school. I rushed home and called around but nobody had seen her. Then, about 4 p.m.
MoreDora’s Story
Hi everyone. How are you all today? As for me, good. Just chillin in my bedroom on Skype.
MoreGiving Thanks for Special Needs Children
Each child brings something into a family when he or she arrives. Each individual is directly affected by the other members of the family and impacts the unit as a whole. A child with special needs adds a special dimension and provides a unique...
MoreLimited Communicators: How to Open the Door to your Child’s Potential
Have you ever said anything to someone close and been completely misunderstood? Have you ever tried to use another language in a foreign city and been frustrated when you could not access your wants or needs? If you needed the bathroom urgently...
MoreSaluting Moms of Special Needs Kids
In my practice as a speech/language therapist, I see toddlers, children and young adults with a variety of special needs labels and a myriad of challenges. Each child is special, each experience as humbling as the day I graduated more than 35...
MoreSpecial Needs Children have Brothers and Sisters
The siblings of special needs kids are considered “typical” and are helpful to the family in more ways than we account for. They support their special needs brother or sister by mentoring them through play, encouraging them to push towards their...
MoreWhy can’t my kid get organized!?: ADHD and Executive Functioning
Dear Developmental Doc:I cannot believe I am so frustrated with my son this early into the school year. J is almost eleven and because he has ADHD (attention deficit hyperactive disorder), he continues to struggle with basics like making sure his...
MoreSupport for the Journey
A woman’s daughter has just been diagnosed with autism. A couple struggles to deal with their brain-injured baby, still in the NICU. These courageous parents face an unknown journey with no preparation and no road map. What do they need? They...
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